Deep secrets :: boys' friendships and the crisis of connection /
"Boys are emotionally illiterate and don't want intimate friendships". In this empirically grounded challenge to our stereotypes about boys and men, the author reveals the intense intimacy among teenage boys especially during early and middle adolescence. Boys not only share their dee...
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| Zusammenfassung: | "Boys are emotionally illiterate and don't want intimate friendships". In this empirically grounded challenge to our stereotypes about boys and men, the author reveals the intense intimacy among teenage boys especially during early and middle adolescence. Boys not only share their deepest secrets and feelings with their closest male friends, they claim that without them they would go "wacko." Yet as boys become men, they become distrustful, lose these friendships, and feel isolated and alone. Drawing from hundreds of interviews conducted throughout adolescence with black, Latino, white, and Asian American boys, this work reveals the ways in which we have been telling ourselves a false story about boys, friendships, and human nature. Boys' descriptions of their male friendships sound more like "something out of Love Story than Lord of the Flies." Yet in late adolescence, boys feel they have to "man up" by becoming stoic and independent. Vulnerable emotions and intimate friendships are for girls and gay men. "No homo" becomes their mantra. These findings are alarming, given what we know about links between friendships and health, and even longevity. Rather than a "boy crisis," the author argues that boys are experiencing a "crisis of connection" because they live in a culture where human needs and capacities are given a sex (female) and a sexuality (gay), and thus discouraged for those who are neither. The author argues that the solution lies with exposing the inaccuracies of our gender stereotypes and fostering these critical relationships and fundamental human skills.--From publisher information. |
| Beschreibung: | 1 online resource (326 pages) |
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| spelling | Way, Niobe, 1963- author. https://id.oclc.org/worldcat/entity/E39PCjv6t7ycJkJHq8tbcGbY8C http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n95113255 Deep secrets : boys' friendships and the crisis of connection / Niobe Way. Boys' friendships and the crisis of connection Cambridge, Massachusetts : Harvard University Press, 2011. ©2011 1 online resource (326 pages) text txt rdacontent computer c rdamedia online resource cr rdacarrier text file PDF rda Includes bibliographical references and index. The hidden landscape of boys' friendships -- Investigating boys, friendships, and human nature -- I: Friendships during early and middle adolescence. "Sometimes you need to spill your heart out to somebody" -- Boys with feelings -- Nick and George: stories of resistance -- II: Friendships during late adolescence. "When you grow up, your heart dies" -- As boys become men -- Fernando and Danny -- The crisis of connection. "Boys are emotionally illiterate and don't want intimate friendships". In this empirically grounded challenge to our stereotypes about boys and men, the author reveals the intense intimacy among teenage boys especially during early and middle adolescence. Boys not only share their deepest secrets and feelings with their closest male friends, they claim that without them they would go "wacko." Yet as boys become men, they become distrustful, lose these friendships, and feel isolated and alone. Drawing from hundreds of interviews conducted throughout adolescence with black, Latino, white, and Asian American boys, this work reveals the ways in which we have been telling ourselves a false story about boys, friendships, and human nature. Boys' descriptions of their male friendships sound more like "something out of Love Story than Lord of the Flies." Yet in late adolescence, boys feel they have to "man up" by becoming stoic and independent. Vulnerable emotions and intimate friendships are for girls and gay men. "No homo" becomes their mantra. These findings are alarming, given what we know about links between friendships and health, and even longevity. Rather than a "boy crisis," the author argues that boys are experiencing a "crisis of connection" because they live in a culture where human needs and capacities are given a sex (female) and a sexuality (gay), and thus discouraged for those who are neither. The author argues that the solution lies with exposing the inaccuracies of our gender stereotypes and fostering these critical relationships and fundamental human skills.--From publisher information. In English. Print version record. Male friendship. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh93005650 Emotions in adolescence. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh90004943 Emotions in children. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85042825 Amitié masculine. Émotions chez l'adolescent. Émotions chez l'enfant. FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Life Stages Adolescence. bisacsh PSYCHOLOGY Developmental Adolescent. bisacsh FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Life Stages Teenagers. bisacsh SOCIAL SCIENCE General. bisacsh Emotions in adolescence fast Emotions in children fast Male friendship fast has work: Deep secrets (Text) https://id.oclc.org/worldcat/entity/E39PCGY8Y9KG7mBwVkdGd6Y8hb https://id.oclc.org/worldcat/ontology/hasWork Print version: Way, Niobe, 1963- Deep secrets. Cambridge, Mass. : Harvard University Press, 2011 9780674046641 (DLC) 2010047702 (OCoLC)676725355 FWS01 ZDB-4-EDU FWS_PDA_EDU https://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx?direct=true&scope=site&db=nlebk&AN=361668 Volltext |
| spellingShingle | Way, Niobe, 1963- Deep secrets : boys' friendships and the crisis of connection / The hidden landscape of boys' friendships -- Investigating boys, friendships, and human nature -- I: Friendships during early and middle adolescence. "Sometimes you need to spill your heart out to somebody" -- Boys with feelings -- Nick and George: stories of resistance -- II: Friendships during late adolescence. "When you grow up, your heart dies" -- As boys become men -- Fernando and Danny -- The crisis of connection. Male friendship. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh93005650 Emotions in adolescence. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh90004943 Emotions in children. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85042825 Amitié masculine. Émotions chez l'adolescent. Émotions chez l'enfant. FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Life Stages Adolescence. bisacsh PSYCHOLOGY Developmental Adolescent. bisacsh FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Life Stages Teenagers. bisacsh SOCIAL SCIENCE General. bisacsh Emotions in adolescence fast Emotions in children fast Male friendship fast |
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| title_alt | Boys' friendships and the crisis of connection |
| title_auth | Deep secrets : boys' friendships and the crisis of connection / |
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| title_full | Deep secrets : boys' friendships and the crisis of connection / Niobe Way. |
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| topic | Male friendship. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh93005650 Emotions in adolescence. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh90004943 Emotions in children. http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85042825 Amitié masculine. Émotions chez l'adolescent. Émotions chez l'enfant. FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Life Stages Adolescence. bisacsh PSYCHOLOGY Developmental Adolescent. bisacsh FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Life Stages Teenagers. bisacsh SOCIAL SCIENCE General. bisacsh Emotions in adolescence fast Emotions in children fast Male friendship fast |
| topic_facet | Male friendship. Emotions in adolescence. Emotions in children. Amitié masculine. Émotions chez l'adolescent. Émotions chez l'enfant. FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Life Stages Adolescence. PSYCHOLOGY Developmental Adolescent. FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Life Stages Teenagers. SOCIAL SCIENCE General. Emotions in adolescence Emotions in children Male friendship |
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