The state of affairs: rethinking infidelity
An affair. It can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. Why do people cheat, even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there...
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| Zusammenfassung: | An affair. It can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. Why do people cheat, even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? For the past ten years, couples' therapist Esther Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of clients who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage ... with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about modern relationships: what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations |
| Beschreibung: | Includes bibliographical references (pages 303-310) and index |
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/ PEREL, ESTHERYYEAUTHOR
: 2017
TABLE OF CONTENTS / INHALTSVERZEICHNIS
PART I: SETTING THE STAGE. A NEW CONVERSATION ABOUT MARRIAGE AND
INFIDELITY ; DEFINING INFIDELITY : IS CHATTING CHEATING? ; AFFAIRS ARE
NOT WHAT THEY USED TO BE
PART II: THE FALLOUT. WHY BETRAYAL HURTS SO MUCH : DEATH BY A THOUSAND
CUTS ; LITTLE SHOP OF HORRORS : DO SOME AFFAIRS HURT MORE THAN OTHERS? ;
JEALOUSY : THE SPARK OF EROS ; SELF-BLAME OR VENGEANCE : THE DAGGER CUTS
BOTH WAYS ; TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL? : THE POLITICS OF SECRECY AND
REVELATION
PART III: MEANINGS AND MOTIVES. EVEN HAPPY PEOPLE CHEAT : MINING THE
MEANINGS OF AFFAIRS ; AN ANTIDOTE TO DEADNESS : THE LURE OF THE
FORBIDDEN ; IS SEX EVER JUST SEX? : THE EMOTIONAL ECONOMICS OF ADULTERY
; THE MOTHER OF ALL BETRAYALS? : AFFAIRS AMONG OTHER MARITAL
MISDEMEANORS ; THE LOVER S DILEMMA : CONVERSATIONS WITH THE OTHER WOMAN
PART IV: EVER AFTER. MONOGAMY AND ITS DISCONTENTS : RETHINKING MARRIAGE
; AFTER THE STORM : THE LEGACY OF AN AFFAIR
DIESES SCHRIFTSTUECK WURDE MASCHINELL ERZEUGT.
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| spelling | Perel, Esther 1958- Verfasser (DE-588)131988476 aut The state of affairs rethinking infidelity Esther Perel Infidelity First edition New York, NY Harper, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers [2017] © 2017 xvi, 319 pages 24 cm txt rdacontent n rdamedia nc rdacarrier Includes bibliographical references (pages 303-310) and index An affair. It can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. Why do people cheat, even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? For the past ten years, couples' therapist Esther Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of clients who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage ... with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about modern relationships: what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Marriage & Long-Term Relationships / bisacsh PSYCHOLOGY / Human Sexuality / bisacsh PSYCHOLOGY / Psychotherapy / Counseling / bisacsh Adultery / fast / (OCoLC)fst00797378 Adultery / Psychological aspects / fast / (OCoLC)fst00797384 Interpersonal relations / fast / (OCoLC)fst00977397 Intimacy (Psychology) / fast / (OCoLC)fst00977714 Man-woman relationships / fast / (OCoLC)fst01007080 Marital conflict / fast / (OCoLC)fst01010071 Marriage / fast / (OCoLC)fst01010443 Married people / fast / (OCoLC)fst01010656 Adultery Adultery Psychological aspects Marriage Married people Marital conflict Man-woman relationships Interpersonal relations Intimacy (Psychology) FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS PSYCHOLOGY Zweierbeziehung (DE-588)4191223-8 gnd rswk-swf Treulosigkeit (DE-588)4199198-9 gnd rswk-swf Liebesbeziehung (DE-588)4167616-6 gnd rswk-swf Ehebruch (DE-588)4013632-2 gnd rswk-swf Partnerschaftskonflikt (DE-588)4123916-7 gnd rswk-swf Zweierbeziehung (DE-588)4191223-8 s Treulosigkeit (DE-588)4199198-9 s Partnerschaftskonflikt (DE-588)4123916-7 s Ehebruch (DE-588)4013632-2 s 1\p DE-604 Liebesbeziehung (DE-588)4167616-6 s 2\p DE-604 LoC Fremddatenuebernahme application/pdf http://bvbr.bib-bvb.de:8991/F?func=service&doc_library=BVB01&local_base=BVB01&doc_number=030759075&sequence=000001&line_number=0001&func_code=DB_RECORDS&service_type=MEDIA Inhaltsverzeichnis 1\p cgwrk 20201028 DE-101 https://d-nb.info/provenance/plan#cgwrk 2\p cgwrk 20201028 DE-101 https://d-nb.info/provenance/plan#cgwrk |
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