Same-sex marriage, context, and lesbian identity: wedded but not always a wife
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Lanham ; Boulder ; New York ; London
Lexington Books
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| Beschreibung: | xxi, 179 pages |
| ISBN: | 9781498516983 9781498517003 |
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Preface xiii
Acknowledgments xvii
Introduction: The Evolution of Marriage and the Language of Love xix
1 Same-Sex Marriage as a Reality in the United States 1
Political Gains 1
Acceptance in the Media 3
The Ongoing Struggle for Marriage Equality 4
Social and Historical Complexities Associated with the
Term Wife 5
The Women’s Rights Movement 6
Labor Participation and the Feminist Movement 7
Education, Marriage Age, Birth Control, Divorce 8
The Gay Rights Movement 9
Wrongly Blamed for AIDS 11
Internal Debate—Resistance to Marriage 13
Pressing Ever Forward 14
Research Finding: Age Matters in Use of the Term Wife 15
— Vll
Contents
viii
2 Methods and Background: The Intersection of Language
and Identity 19
Research Goals 20
Methods of Discovery 21
Interviews 21
Demographics of Interview Couples 23
Surveys 23
Where Is the Diversity? 26
Identity and Language Ideology: Navigating a Contextual Identity 28
Research Finding: Shifting Use of Wife in Contextual Identities 30
3 Whether at the Chapel, in the Courthouse, or on the Beach:
Why Get Married? 33
For the Legal Protections That Only Marriage Can Secure 34
To Your Health! 34
For the Kids 36
Equality and Respect 37
Civil Rights 38
Let’s Hurry, They May Take It Away! 38
Blessed by the Church 39
To Demonstrate Love, Family, and Commitment 40
To Share and Elicit Public Affirmation 42
Sometimes It’s a Tough Decision—Internalized Homophobia 43
Are Same֊Sex Marriages Equal? Not Always, in Legal Matters 44
Bi-National Injustice 45
Perceived Loss of Gay and Lesbian Culture 46
Research Finding: Use of Wife Only Appears Heteronormative 48
4 Who Calls Whom Wz/e? 51
Trends Diverge at Age Fifty 52
Partner, When Wife Is Too Heterosexual 53
Partner Makes Sense 54
Sometimes Partner, Sometimes Spouse 56
No Way to Wife 57
Avoiding Ancient “Heterosexual Baggage” 57
When a Married Lesbian Is a Wife 58
Contents ix
Wife Fits without a Problem 59
Using Wife Helps People “Get It” 60
Sharing Life s Goals 60
It Says Everything We Want to Convey 61
It Took a While to Get Used To 62
To Show Commitment, Longevity, and Legality 63
When the Same Term Isn’t Right for Both Marriage Partners 63
Partner Implies Partnership, Wife Lays the Cards on the Table 64
Gender Expression—There Is No Perfect Term 65
Terms in Flux 65
Everybody Needs a Wife 66
Steadily Getting More Comfortable 67
Survey Results 68
Term Use across Social Contexts 68
Term Use by Age 69
Research Finding: Historical Experience Plays a Role 70
5 Navigating Family and Community as a Married Couple 73
Family Dynamics 74
Uniting Families through Marriage 75
Gaining Family Acceptance and Support 76
Cultural and Racial Influences 78
Dealing with Opposition 80
Family Avoidance or Absence 82
When Siblings Have a Problem 84
Extended Community Support 85
Gaining Respect in the Community 87
Navigating Community Norms with Children 88
Lesbian Community Assumptions 90
Community Relationships and the Use of Terms 91
Survey Results 92
Effects of Age on Parental Acceptance 94
Sibling Acceptance before and after Marriage 95
Use of Wife across Social Contexts 96
When Children Are Present in the Family 97
Research Finding: Family Acceptance Is Key to Using Wife 97
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6 Workplace Politics and Policies 99
Fear of Disclosure 101
School Rules 102
Construction Work: The Boys Club 105
Medical Work 106
Even Accepting Workplaces Can Be Tricky 106
Survey Results 108
Age and Choice of Relationship Terms 109
Thought Given to Choice of Terms at Work 110
Research Finding: Job Security Factors in Avoidance of Wife 110
7 Rebellion, Risks, and Renegotiation 113
Rebellion—Taking Back the Word Wife 114
Internal Justification 115
Rewards of Risk֊Taking 118
Restraint and Safety 119
Travel Risks 121
Gender Identity and Renegotiated Language 123
When Wearing a Word Is Like Wearing a Dress 125
Survey Results: Rebellion and Risks 128
Gender Identity and Language Use 130
Research Finding: Use of Wife Depends on Safety and Interpretation 131
8 Conclusion: The Evolving Identity of a Lesbian Wife 133
Presenting a Contextual Identity 134
Social Justice, Equality, and Visibility Are Important Reasons
to Marry 134
Myriad Influences on Use of the Term Wife 135
Young Couples and Ongoing Use of the Term Wife 136
Who Is (and Isn t) Getting Married? 137
Challenges Ahead 138
Effects on the Gay and Lesbian Community 138
Gender Identity and the Transgender and Queer Communities 139
Research Finding: The Once and Future Wife 139
Contents xi
Appendix A. Interview Protocol 143
Appendix B. Data Tables (Chapters 2-7) 145
Bibliography 157
Index 167
About the Authors 179
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