Stop caretaking the borderline or narcissist: how to end the drama and get on with life
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Lanham [u.a.]
Rowman & Littlefield
2014
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| Ausgabe: | 1. paperback ed. |
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| Online-Zugang: | Inhaltsverzeichnis |
| Beschreibung: | Includes bibliographical references (p. 203-207) and index |
| Beschreibung: | VIII, 217 S. Ill. 25 cm |
| ISBN: | 9781442220188 9781442238329 |
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I: Understanding the Caretaker Role 1
1 Is My Partner Really a Borderline or Narcissist? 5
2 Why the Borderline/Narcissist Needs a Caretaker 17
3 What Is a Caretaker? 27
4 Caretaker Involvement Levels 39
5 Emotional Distortions of Caretakers 47
6 Thought Distortions of Caretakers 53
7 Behavioral Distortions of Caretakers 61
8 Distortions in the Sense of Self 69
9 Relationship Distortions of Caretakers 73
II: Letting Go of Caretaking 79
10 Stages of Healing 81
11 Challenging the BP/NP Family Rules 93
12 Beginning to Heal: Embracing New Beliefs and Behaviors 113
13 Increasing Your Self-Confidence 125
14 Nurturing and Caring for Yourself 137
15 Anxiety-Reducing Skills with the BP/NP 145
16 Change-Creating Skills with the BP/NP 153
17 Leaving or Staying 161
III: Rebuilding 173
18 Moving Forward in a Healthy Way 175
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19 Reaching Out to Others 185
20 The New You 193
Appendix: Caretaker Test 199
Notes 203
Bibliography 205
Index 209
About the Author 219
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