The boy crisis: why our boys are struggling and what we can do about it
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| adam_text | Introduction: Is There Really a Boy Crisis? I
• My Personal Journey into The Boy Crisis
PART I: Is There Really a Boy Crisis?
1. The Crisis of Our Sons’ Mental Health 15
2. The Crisis of Our Sons’ Physical Health 20
3. The Crisis of Our Sons’ Economic Health 25
4. The Crisis of Our Sons’ Education 28
5. The Crisis of Our Sons Worldwide 34
6. Why Are We So Blind to the Boy Crisis? 36
PART II: Why the Boy Crisis Isn t Your Fault
7. The Boy Crisis: A Problem Created by a Solution 40
PART III: The Purpose Void
8. The Path-to-Purpose Generation Gap 46
• The Power of Purpose
xi
xii
Contents
• “I never thought you cared enough to ask.”
• Your Son’s Unconscious Wisdom
• Can a Real Man Transition from Provider-Protector to
Nurturer-Connector?
9. The “Hero Paradox”: Value Yourself by Not Valuing Yourself 61
• A Hero with a Thousand Faces
• The Sirens of Social Bribes
• Social bribes: Mom, men, the media, the military
• The Catch-22 of Your Son-as-Hero
10. Why Do More Marriages Fail in Countries That Succeed? 70
• The Father’s Catch-22
• The Era of the Multi-Option Mom and the No-Option Dad
• How Did Our Daughters Avoid the Purpose Void?
• Sorry, It s a Boy”
11. How Raising Our Sons Successfully in the Past Differs from
Raising Our Sons Successfully for Their Future 81
• Making Money Versus Making a Difference
• How to Guide Different Boys Toward Different Senses of
Purpose
• Our Sons’ New Sense of Purpose: The Hero’s Journey to
Emotional Intelligence
• Son-Dropping
12. Raising a Balanced Son in an Out-of-Balance World 93
• What Happened to Pickup Team Sports?
• Helping Your Son Find His “Edge”
• Filling Your Son’s Purpose Void: Your Son as Hero
PART IV: Dad-Deprived Boys Versus Dad-Enriched Boys
13. Dad-Deprived Boys
• Boys Who Hurt, Hurt Us
• The Lost Boys: Mass shooters
• ISIS: A gang of dad-deprived boys?
Contents
XIII
• Bio Dad: The Discovery of the Dad Brain
• Careers Are for Now; Children Are Forever
• The Absence of Dad Creates the Presence of Government
14. Why Are Dads So Important? 117
• Let Me Count the Ways
15. Rediscovering Dad 122
• The Generation of the Dad Rich Versus the Dad Poor
• When Does Dad Begin to Matter?
• Stepdad or Bio Dad: Does It Make a Difference?
16. What Dads Do Differently 134
» I. Boundary Enforcement (Versus Boundary Setting)
• 2. Exploring Nature, Taking Risks
• 3. Roughhousing: Dad as a Rough, Tough Cream Puff
• 4. “Teachable Moments”: A Little Pain for a Lot of Gain
• 5. Challenging the Kids’Limits
• 6. Hangout Time
• 7. Teasing: Emotional Intelligence Training, Dad-Style?
• The Conditional or Hierarchical Dad
• The Worrier and the Warrior: The Checks and Balances of
Parenting
17. In the Event of Divorce .. . The Four “Must-Dos” 164
18. The Father Warrior: Why Fathering Will Be a New Male
Sense of Purpose 177
• Match.com: The Father Warrior Meets the Have-lt-All
Woman
• If Men Get Paid More, Is It Realistic for a Dad to Be the
Primary Parent?
19. DAD: Discrimination Against Dads 187
• “It Doesn t Feel Right When I See Them Together”
• Moms Have the Right to Children, Dads Have to Fight for
Children
• How Did Father Knows Best Become Father Knows ?
• Guiding Your Son to “Make a Difference”
20. The Best Parent Is Both Parents, But... 196
• The Best “Parent” Is an Attitude Shift
XIV
Contents
• Fighting in front of the kids
• No one asked why the men were drinking
• Cheap fun for dad and son
• Dad-inspiring movies
• When the Best “Parent” Cannot Be Both Parents
• The Cub Scouts and character
• Mentoring and rite-of-passage programs
• Grandfather time
• When the biological father is missing, can God the
Father help?
21. From “Cultural Shrug” to Cultural Shift 218
• Kill Today, Love Tomorrow: The Military Dad Dilemma
• From Father’s Dime to Father’s Time
• The Government: As Problem, as Solution
• Creating a White House Council on Boys and Men
• Our Dads, Our Sons, Our Guns
22. Creating Dad-Enriched Families 230
PART V: Heroic Intelligence Versus Health Intelligence
23. Heroic Intelligence Versus Health Intelligence 234
• Biologically, Girls Just Live Longer, Right?
• Social Bribes: Hollywood—Heroic Health Versus Mental
and Physical Health
* Does the new heroine mean your son won’t have to
risk his life for her love?
• Health Intelligence Inventory
• Boys’ Weakness as Their Facade of Strength
• Your Son’s Body, Not His Choice
* “First and ten, concussion again!”
* My son wants to join the military. Is this good news or
bad news?
• Your Sons Body, Your Son’s Choice: Resisting the Sirens of
Social Bribes
Contents
XV
24. Emotional Intelligence and Mental Health
259
• The Barriers to a Boy’s Emotional Intelligence
* Behind your son’s mask: Filling the compassion void”
• “I m fine . . . Just leave me alone.”
* Helping your son take risks in life without risking his life
• How Heroic Intelligence and Emotional Intelligence Play Out
in Everyday Life
» Moving to better neighborhoods helps girls and hurts boys
• The bully and the bullied
* Helping both the bully and the bullied
• Eighteen Steps Toward Integrating Emotional and Physical
Health Intelligence into Heroic Intelligence
25. Reversing Depression, Preventing Suicide 273
• Causes of Suicide
• Women cry, men die
• If no human doing, no human being
* Suicide is contagious
• Diagnosing Danger: The Warren Farrell Male Depression/
Suicide Inventory (WFMDI)
• Preventing Suicide
• The “Sperm Crisis”: To Be, or Not to Be
• Drinking and Drugs
• The Unholy Trinity: Obesity, Diabetes, and Erectile
Dysfunction
27. From Hurt People Hurting People to Healed People
Healing People 305
• Refilling the Empathy Void
• Couples’ Communication: Your Children’s Best Inheritance
PART VI: ADHD: Treatment With or Without Medication
26. Hidden Hazards to Your Son’s Health
292
28. The New Neural Crisis
• A New Spin on ADHD
314
xvi
Contents
29. The Four Faces of ADHD 325
30. The Many Causes of ADHD 333
• Addressing the Cause to Heal the Brain
31. Natural Solutions to Restore Dopamine Function 355
32. Natural Supplements for Better Brain Performance 372
Conclusion 388
• Your Mission: Guiding Your Son to Discover His Mission
• Extending Gender Liberation to Dads
• From Cultural Shrug to Cultural Mission: A Gender
Liberation Movement
Appendix A: Family Dinner Night: The Five Essentials
Appendix B: The Boy Crisis List: The Benefits of Dad,
and the Dangers of Dad Deprivation 402
Bibliography 408
Acknowledgments 411
About the Authors 414
Endnotes 416
Index
473
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