Growth and intimacy for gay men: a workbook
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| Sprache: | English |
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New York [u.a.]
Harrington Park Press
1997
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| Schriftenreihe: | Haworth gay & lesbian studies
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| Beschreibung: | 293 S. |
| ISBN: | 1560239018 |
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| adam_text | CONTENTS
Introduction
1
Chapter
1.
Growing Up Gay: Gay Men and Families
of Origin
7
Introduction
7
Early Mothering
9
Gender Role
10
Feeling Different
12
Boys and Their Fathers
12
Gay Men and Their Relationships with Their Fathers
14
Sibling Relationships
17
Family Balance
18
Adults and Their Parents
20
The Gay Family
23
Summary
24
Exercises
26
Constructing Your Family
Genogram
26
Assessing Family Functioning
35
The Parent Interview
38
Identifying Your Coping Mechanisms
40
Assessing the Impact of Disclosure
42
The Family Letter
45
You and Your Father
47
Chapter
2.
Self-Esteem and Shame in the Lives
of Gay Men
53
Introduction
53
Early Self-Image
54
The Secret of Being Different
56
Coming Out
58
Gay Role Models
61
Shame and Self-Esteem
62
Shame and Self-Protection
64
What Did You Do Wrong?
65
Narcissism and Gay Men
67
Narcissism as Defense, Not Just Personality
70
Actual
versus
Ideal
Self 70
HIV
Risk and Self-Esteem
72
Summary
74
Exercises
76
Assessing Your Self-Esteem
76
Being Who Others Want You To Be
77
Life s Messages About Homosexuality
78
Feeling Different for Being Gay
79
Are All Those Negative Beliefs Still in There?
80
Examining Shame in Your Life
81
Male Role Models
89
Your Real Self versus Your Ideal Self
90
Feelings Associated with Coming Out
91
Chapter
3.
Addictive Behavior and Codependency
in Gay Men
93
Introduction
93
Addictive Behavior in Gay Men
95
Sexual Addiction in Gay Men
102
Codependent Behavior in Gay Men
108
Recovery from Addictions
114
Psychotherapy
116
Twelve-Step Groups
118
Twelve-Step Sponsors
120
The Twelve Steps
120
Twelve-Step Groups and Gay Men
122
Books on Recovery
123
Exercises
124
Assessing Your Coping Style
124
Assessing Internalized Homophobia
126
Assessing Dependency in Your Life
128
Am I An Addict?
130
My Own Thoughts on the Twelve Steps
132
If Someone You Love Is Addicted
133
Secrets, Shame, and Addiction
135
Chapter
4.
Developing and Maintaining Gay Relationships
137
Introduction
137
Getting Started
138
Gay Men and Trust
148
Making Relationships Work
148
Challenges Male Couples Face
151
There Is Your Father, Again
156
The Roller Coaster of Romance
158
Who Is In Charge Here?
161
Violence in Gay Relationships
163
Ending the Cycle of Violence
166
If the Relationship Has to End
166
Exercises
170
Notes to Myself: Rules for Dating
170
Identifying Your Criteria for Dating
171
Writing a Personal Ad
173
Quality of Relationship Assessment
174
Relationship Expectations
176
Relationship Communication
178
A Couples Exercise
180
Doing Positive Things for Each Other
185
IfltHastoEnd
186
Chapter
5.
Friendship in the Lives of Gay Men
189
Introduction
189
Are We Friends or Lovers?
191
Friendships of Gay Men
192
Friendships with Heterosexual Males
193
Friendships with Heterosexual Females
195
Friendships with Lesbians
197
Summary
198
Exercises
199
Reviewing Your Support System
199
All My Friends Are Gay
201
Chapter
6.
Gay Male Survivors of Childhood Abuse
205
Introduction
205
The Experience of Abuse
205
How Do I Know If It Was Abuse?
208
You Cannot Just Forget the Abuse
213
Exercises
215
Abuse in Your Childhood: Assessing the Impact
215
Talking About the Abuse You Experienced
220
Chapter
7.
AIDS in Our Lives: Assessing the Impact
223
Introduction
223
Our Collective Experience of Loss
225
The Concept of Grief
226
Grief and AIDS
230
Survival Guilt
231
AIDS as Traumatic Stress
234
Dealing with AIDS in the Here and Now
240
Exercises
242
AIDS in Your Life: Taking Stock
242
Photographs and Storytelling
252
If You Are HIV-Infected
253
Chapter
8.
The Aging Gay Man: Lessons and Challenges
in Development
259
Introduction
259
Why Do We Fear Growing Older?
260
What Do We Know About Gay Men and Aging?
261
Adulthood as Transition: Our Fortieth Year and Beyond
263
Bodily Changes in Men
265
The Psychology of Men and Aging: The Work
of Daniel
Levinson
265
Sex and Mood as We Age
270
Depression and Aging
271
Managing Depression
274
Conclusion
275
Exercises
277
A Look at Your Own Aging Process
277
What Do Your Genes Say?
280
Being a Mentor
282
Questions to Ask at Midlife
284
Interviewing an Older Adult
285
Assessing Depression in Your Life
286
References
287
Index
291
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