The well-seasoned marriage:
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1986
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| Physical Description: | XII, 174 S. |
| ISBN: | 089876114X |
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Autor: Fields, Nina S
Jahr: 1986
CONTENTS Acknowledgments vii Introduction: The Study of Success 3 Chapter 1. Together Yet Separate: With Equality for Each—the Key 9 Friendship With One’s Mate 10 Friendships With Others 11 Separate Interests 12 Separateness and the Changing Times 13 The Myth of “Incompleteness 16 The Burden of Dependency 17 Work and Independence 19 The Trouble with Expectations 21 Exercises 25 Chapter 2. Do You See Me Like I See Me?: The Route to Empathy 27 What It Is 27 Self-Knowledge: The First Step 30 A Sense of Self: Being an Individual, Being a Mate 31 Things Inside Us 32 Common Blocks to Empathy 33 Fears and Fantasies 34 The Fear of Differences 35 be
x Contents Unexamined Parental images and Imperfect Adult Sex Models 36 Preconceptions and Expectations 39 Exercises 40 Chapter 3. Money Is More than Dollars 43 Language of Money 44 When Bells Ring the Lights Come On 48 “Our” Money versus “My” Money 50 The Second Time Around 51 Money as Reward 52 Money as Control 53 Exercises 57 Chapter 4. Sexuality: Keeping the Spark Alive 61 Ups and Downs in the Marriage Bed 62 What is Sexual Satisfaction? 63 Trust 64 Openness and Communication 67 Tedking Straight 68 Breaking Through Inhibitions 69 Sexual Specifics 71 Settling Old Grudges 73 Affection 75 Making Changes 75 The Whole View 76 Exercises 77 Chapter 5. Marriage and Infidelity 81 The “Burden” of Monogamy 81 Agreeing in Principle 84 Sex and Emotions 85 Lying 89 Modem Marriages of Convenience 89 Stress: A Common Culprit 91
Contents ?** Agreed-on Adventures 93 Midlife: Impact on Marriage 95 Some Like it Young 95 Change: Fun for Some, Hurtful for Others 96 Conclusions 97 Exercises 98 Chapter 6. Learning to Argue—the Right Way 99 Shattering the Myths 100 Argumentation as Communication 101 About Accommodation 104 Some Stoppers 105 The Fear of Anger 106 A Rogue’s Gallery: How Not to Have an Argument 110 The Pulverizers 110 The Superior Being 111 The Freeze 112 The Clam and the Runaway 112 The Sneak Attacker 113 Exercises 113 Chapter 7. Life with Children 117 To Have or Have Not 118 The Stresses to Expect 120 Jealousy and Resentment 120 Conflicts in Parenting Style 124 Special Alliances and Power Struggles 128 Living Through Children 128 Adolescence 130 Life in the “Empty Nest” 132 Exercises 136 Chapter 8. Parental Influence: Exorcising the Ghosts 139 Who Turns You On—and Why 140 Parental Models 143
xU Contents Separation: How to Accomplish It 148 Impossible Parental Standards 149 Meddling 151 Building Relations with In-laws 154 Caring for Parents in Need 156 Exercises 159 Epilogue 163 References 165 Bibliography 167 Index 173
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