Making remarriage work:
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Lexington, Mass. u.a.
Heath
1987
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| Physical Description: | XVII, 208 S. |
| ISBN: | 0669140309 0669140317 |
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| adam_text | Contents Preface xv Editor’s Acknowkdgments xix 1. A Look at Family Life, American Style i More Than One Kind of Normal Family i Lillian Messinger Reflections of a Family Court Judge 4 Ernest Rotenberg Second Families Go Unprotected by the Law 7 Donna Bilbrey Stepfamilies in England, France, and the Netherlands 9 David A. Baptiste, Jr. 2. Is It Time to Remarry? 11 Successful Marriages Are Renewed Marriages и Frederic F. Flacb, M.D. The Advantages and Challenges of Remarrying 13 Frederic F. Flacb, M.D. Love Is Not All . . . Success in Remarriage Requires Much More if Pauh Ripple Comin From “Never Again” to “I Do” 18 Elizabeth Einstein
viii Making Remarriage Work Are You Ready to Remarry? 20 Elizabeth Einstein 3. The Cold Facts about Remarriage: Money, Prenuptial Agreements, and Wills 25 Dare We Talk about Money? 25 Claire Berman Is a Prenuptial Contract Necessary? 2 8 Neal A. Kuyper A Look at Antenuptial Agreements 31 Doris Jonas Freed Remarriage and Writing a Will 32 Neal A. Kuyper 4. Are You Prepared to Be a Second Wife? Being a Second Wife 37 37 Donna Bilbrey Second Wife, a Former Wife, and the Common Denominator 3 9 A Marie Kargman Fun in the Summer for Second Wives 41 Donna Bilbrey 5. Enriching Yourselves as a Couple 43 How Does Sex Fare in Second Marriages? 43 Frederic F. Flach, M.D. Do You Both Want a Child? 45 Claire Berman How Not to Let Guilt Destroy a Second Chance 47 Frederic F. Flach, M.D.
ix Contents Denial Damages Chances for Successful Remarriage 49 Elizabeth Einstein Are You Communicating? 51 Marie Kargman Hauntings 54 Frederic F. Flach, M.D. Facing the Feelings Remarriage Brings and Letting Go Elizabeth Einstein Vasectomy Reversal 62 Jane Mickelson How to Choose a Surgeon 68 Angie Pallow-Fleury 6. Learning to Be a Stepparent 71 Coming to Terms in Stepfamilies: What to Call the New Mom or Dad 71 Claire Berman Stepping into Parenting Someone Else’s Children Patriaa L. Papemow How to Work with the Other Parents 80 Claire Berman Guidelines for Stepfathers 83 Frederic F. Flach, M.D. Unfulfilled Need or Malicious Intent? 86 David A. Baptiste, Jr. Do Fathers Really Want Stepmothers to Influence Their Children’s Lives? 88 Frederic F. Flach, M.D. 73 57
x Making Remarriage Work How Parents Intensify Sexual Feelings between Stepsiblings 91 David A. Baptiste, Jr. 7. Strengthening Your New Family 95 Building a New Identity as a Stepfamily 95 Jamie Kelem Kesbet The Family in the Plain Brown Wrapper 98 Donna Bilbrey “Where Do We Go from Here?” 99 Donna Bilbrey Can a Social Contract Help Integrate a Stepfamily? 102 Marie Kargman When Eight Is Enough 104 Neal A. Kuyper Insights into Establishing the Remarried Household 107 Claire Berman Buying a New Home for a New Family 109 Neal A. Kuyper Dealing with Discipline 111 Elizabeth Einstein Helping Remarried Families Deal with Weekend Children 114 Joan Weiss Attempting to Reconcile Conflicting Interests in a Stepfamily 117 Robert S. Weiss How to Deal with Sexual Feelings in the Stepfamily 119 Claire Berman
Contents 8. What Are the Children Feeling? 121 The Question of Children at the Wedding 121 Neal A. Kuyper “Is It All Right to Love My Stepparent?” 123 Joan Weiss Surnames Cause Confusion for Courts and Families 126 Marie Kargman Helping Older Children Adjust in a Blended Family 130 Neal A. Kuyper “Now You Have a New Brother and Sister!” 132 Frederic F. Flach, M.D. Teenagers Speak Out about Stepfamily Living 134 Jeanne Belovitcb Lessons from the Simple Words of Children 137 Donna Bilbrey 9. Custody, Visitation Rights, and Child Support 139 The Issue of Custody 13 9 Robert S. Weiss Don’t Litigate—Mediate 141 Marie Kargman The Rights of the Noncustodial Parent 144 Peter Cyr On Being Peter Cyr a Good Absentee Parent 147 Child Support: A Public Jeanne Belovitcb and Private Problem 149 xi
xii Making Remarriage Work Making Shared Custody Work Well 151 Patriaa L. Papemow The Experiences of Parents Who Share Custody 155 Kathleen Walker 10. Closing the Gap between the Schools and Stepfamilies 161 Remarriage and Schools: Support or Sabotage 161 Elizabeth Einstein Noncustodial Parents: You Have Legal Rights with the Schools 163 Jeanne Belovitch 11. Holiday Celebrations Begin New Traditions 165 Wishing for a Kodak Christmas 165 Robert S. Weiss The Challenge of Holiday Celebrations 167 Elizabeth Einstein 12. When There Are Racial or Religious Differences The Challenges of Making It as an Interracial Stepfamily 171 David A. Baptiste, Jr. The Remarried Family with Two Faiths 173 Bernard Bloomstone 13. From the Roman Catholic Church 177 Current Positions on Divorce and Remarriage 177 James J. Young Readiness for Remarriage 1 80 James J. Young 171
Contents Growing Ecumenical Cooperation about Remarriage 183 James J. Young 14. My Story 187 My Story: When My Stepchildren Disappeared 187 Christina Mathers My Story: Where Is Justice? 189 Donna Lynn Deeb My Story: My Role as a Natural Mother and Now as a Stepmother 192 Λίαπ Ellen Sabol My Story: The “Odd Couple” Families 194 Barbara J. Bryce Sources and Resources 197 Index 201 About the Contributors 205 About the Editor 209 xiii
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