Raising a responsible child: Practical steps to successful family relationships
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1973
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| Physical Description: | 256 S. |
| ISBN: | 0671214454 |
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| adam_text | Titel: Raising a responsible child
Autor: Dinkmeyer, Don
Jahr: 1973
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Qontmts
Foreword 11
PART I: THE CHILD IN THE FAMILY
Chapter i. Understanding Behavior and Misbehavior 17
CULTURAL MYTHS 20
HOW DID HE GET THAT WAY? HEREDITY, ENVIRON-
MENT, AND THE SELF-CONCEPT 22
BASIC ASSUMPTIONS FOR UNDERSTANDING BEHAVIOR 23
SOCIAL INTEREST 29
FAMILY INFLUENCES ON THE STYLE OF LIFE 30
METHODS OF TRAINING 32
Chapter 2. Understanding and Promoting Emotional
Growth 34
PURPOSIVE EMOTIONS 35
GOALS EMOTIONS MAY ACHIEVE 36
FEAR AND ANXIETY 38
PROMOTING EMOTIONAL GROWTH 42
CONDITIONS FOR EMOTIONAL GROWTH 43
COMPETITION 45
DEALING WITH DISCOURAGEMENT 46
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Contents
Chapter 3. Mistaken Concepts of Adults and Children qj
THE FALLACY OF THE GOOD MOTHER 47
THE PARENTS REAL ROLE 51
CHANGING YOUR ROLE 58
THE EFFECTS OF THE REAL ROLE 60
THE GENERATION OF GETTERS—STIMULATING THE NEU-
ROTIC PROCESS 6l
Chapter 4. Communication 65
TRADITIONAL ROLES PARENTS PLAY WHEN RESPONDING
to children s messages 65
RESPONSES THAT KEEP LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN 67
LISTENING SKILLS FOR PARENTS 68
EXPLORING ALTERNATIVE SOLUTIONS 72
THE CONCEPT OF PROBLEM OWNERSHIP 76
GETTING CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO YOU 77
SELECTING APPROACHES 84
HAVE COURAGE 90
Chapter 3. Encouragement 91
DISCOURAGEMENT 93
METHODS OF ENCOURAGEMENT 94
DIFFERENTIATING PRAISE AND ENCOURAGEMENT 98
THE LANGUAGE OF ENCOURAGEMENT 99
DETERRENTS TO ENCOURAGEMENT 101
PART II: RESPONSIBILITY WITHOUT
PUNISHMENT
Chapter 6. Learning Respect for Order Througjk Ex-
perience and Consequences 105
DEVELOPING RESPONSIBILITY IN CHILDREN 105
ESTABLISHING RESPECT FOR ORDER 107
A TYPICAL DAY IN FAMILY LIFE 113
INGREDIENTS FOR SUCCESS: PARENT RETRAINING 122
Contents
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Chapter 7. Consequences for Common Concerns
FORGETFULNESS
PETS
KITCHEN CHORES
TRASH CANS AND WASTEBASKETS
children s ROOMS
TELEVISION
CARE OF PERSONAL BELONGINGS
PERSONAL HYGIENE
BEHAVIOR IN THE FAMILY CAR
RELATIONSHIPS WITH FRIENDS, NEIGHBORS, AND RELA-
TIVES
PEER RELATIONSHIPS
DANGER
BED-WETTING
Chapter 8. Games Children Play
SHOCKIE
HE STARTED IT
FRAGILE—HANDLE WITH CARE
CATCH ME, I BEG YOU
LYING
STEALING
custer s last stand
TIME OUT FOR A SPECIAL BULLETIN
THE GREATEST SHOW ON EARTH
BROKEN RECORD
MY TIME IS SLOW TIME
PART III: THE CHILD AT SCHOOL
Chapter 9. Approaches to Problems at School
PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIPS CONCERNING SCHOOL
SCHOOL PROPERTY
PARENT-TEACHER RELATIONSHIPS
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THE TEACHER AS A VICTIM OF THE PAST 203
THE MOVEMENT TOWARD HUMANIZATION OF THE
SCHOOLS 204
HOW PARENTS CAN HELP THEIR SCHOOLS 204
PART IV: TOWARD A DEMOCRATIC
FAMILY
Chapter 10. The Family Meeting 209
PURPOSE OF MEETINGS 211
INITIATING THE FAMILY MEETING 214
GENERAL RULES 215
PROCEDURES, AND THE FIRST MEETING 217
EXAMPLE OF AN INITIAL FAMILY MEETING 2l8
CHORES, AND HOW THE FAMILY MEETING CAN HELP 223
ALLOWANCES 225
Chapter 11. A Parent s Confidence-Building Guide to
Effective Problem-Solving 228
RETRAINING AND RETHINKING TAKE TIME-BE PATIENT! 228
DEMOCRACY IN FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS 23O
THE COURAGE TO BE IMPERFECT 23O
BE MORE ACCEPTING OF YOURSELF 231
FEELING GUILTY 232
AVOID SELF-DEFEATING PATTERNS OF BEHAVIOR 233
AVOID DISCOURAGEMENT-BE POSITIVE 234
PUTTING YOUR NEW SKILLS TO WORK 235
PRINCIPLES FOR DEMOCRATIC LIVING WITH CHILDREN 235
START A PARENT STUDY GROUP 241
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